Tuesday, October 28, 2008

Its the Eve of the Eve of the Day We Begin

She read me for over a year before she said "hello". We've known each other for over a year after that. She listened when I was working through the biggest decision of my life. She was there during the time I had to live through the repercussions of that decision. January she sent me flowers. February she came to visit. March during another visit she gave me a ring and a promise.

She kept her promise.

She is turning her life virtually upside down. Leaving a home, family, and friends which she has built over an entire lifetime. She loves me that much. I am more than humbled.

I love her more than there are stars in the sky. She is my best friend. She is my lover. She is my compass. Regardless of whether or not we will ever be legally married, she is my wife.

The world won't end I promise. Your marriages will not disintegrate. Your children will not marry animals. Your school teachers will not recruit the youth. While you are wasting your time and energy worrying about monsters under your bed, we will be eating dinner as a family around the table. Going to the zoo. Doing homework. Reading bedtime stories. Attending parent-teacher conferences and teaching our children the value and morality in loving thy neighbor regardless of whether or not they married the opposite sex.

Soften your hearts and live happily ever after. We will.

~ina~

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Monday, October 27, 2008

Vote NO on Proposition 8

Sunday, October 26, 2008

For the Love of Pete PLEASE Vote NO on Proposition 8

Friday, October 24, 2008

Vote NO on Proposition 8

Calif. gay marriage ban backers target businesses

By LISA LEFF Associated Press Writer

Published: Thursday, Oct. 23, 2008

SAN FRANCISCO -- Leaders of the campaign to outlaw same-sex marriage in California are warning businesses that have given money to the state's largest gay rights group they will be publicly identified as opponents of traditional unions unless they contribute to the gay marriage ban, too. read more here

On Apple's start page today:

"Apple is publicly opposing Proposition 8 and making a donation of$100,000 to the No on 8 campaign. Apple was among the first California companies to offer equal rights and benefits to our employees'same-sex partners, and we strongly believe that a person's fundamental rights — including the right to marry — should not be affected by their sexual orientation. Apple views this as a civil rights issue,rather than just a political issue, and is therefore speaking out publicly against Proposition 8."

http://www.apple.com/hotnews/

Apple is one of several businesses to respond in the wake of threatening letters sent by Yes on 8 to contributors to the No on 8 campaign.

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Thursday, October 23, 2008

Vote NO on Proposition 8



Now tell me again why you won't let me be by her hospital beside if she should fall ill?

Tell me again why you won't allow me to cover her health insurance?

Tell me again why you want me to pay higher taxes than you?

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Tuesday, October 21, 2008

Defeat Prop 8

According to my fabulous friend Lori Hahn at Hahn at Home she’s joined seven other fabulous bloggers: Grace the Spot, Sugarbutch Chronicles, Pam’s House Blend, The Lesbian Lifestyle, Dorothy Surrenders, A Girl Called Automatic Win, and Lesbiatopia and is asking for your help in defeating Prop 8.

Prop 8 eliminates the right of same-sex couples to marry in California. Proponents want to take away equal rights under California law.

They need your help to raise $8,000 in the next 8 days for EQ CA and their fight to help win a resounding NO for Prop 8 in California

They don’t care who you are - just the random passer-by through our little blogosphere or a regular reader. Wrong is wrong – and Prop 8 is wrong and they know you know it’s wrong and they want your help. Think about donating $5, $10, or more dollars to help. To help pave the way to eventually ensuring my family’s equality in my own state. To help ensure the safe and happy future of other families like mine. Help make we win this fight: DONATE.

If we lose in California, we go backwards, and the chance of you in other states making any change anytime soon is going to be affected. I hope you’ll help.

Join me and my fellow bloggers in getting the word out. Post the link on your site and help us. Visit http://www.8against8.com/ today and donate.

And if you do donate…let Lori know so she can show you the love. Anyone donating $100 or more through her site will receive a Hahn at Home coffee mug - and who wouldn’t want to look deep into her eyes every morning, pre-caffeine? I thought so!
Donate. Share. Vote NO on Prop 8. Please.

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